Now that you have got the chance to talk to a girl you are shaking in your boots worrying about what to say to her. After all, it is emphasized everywhere how important a good conversation is. Talking about sports is definitely not going to work especially if she is not into it and talking about fashion or clothes too much does make you sound a little gay. So, here are a few things that you can talk about with the girl that you like.
Interests and hobbies
It’s always good to try and find out what her interests are. If she has any particular hobbies find out about those and talk about it. Even if you don’t know anything about a hobby of hers which might be gardening, then you can always ask her to elaborate and educate you.
Find out about her job profile and her work like. Talking about work can be good as there is a lot to say. You can discuss work roles, job assignments, people at work, whom she likes and whom she does etc. Similarly you can tell her what you do, what your career goals are and funny anecdotes from your work place.
Preferences, likes and dislikes
Try and find out what her preferences, likes and dislikes are. It could range from her favorite restaurant or an issue she feels passionately about. This conversation range is immense as you can talk about current affairs, politics, social issues and causes, animals, colors etc. You have to learn to agree with what she has to say, well mostly. If some of your beliefs are diametrically opposite don’t use this chance to straighten things out and try to change her point of view though.
Movies are a good topic as conversation starters. You can ask her about the type of movies she likes to watch, her favorite movie and movie star or movies that have genuinely touched her. You can go on and on with this topic as almost everyone loves to watch movies. You could even fix up a movie date by talking on this topic.
Crazy things ever done
Find out about the craziest things that she has ever done and tell her about some of your crazy stories. This can garner a few good laughs and warm her up to you.
Find out about the television shows that she enjoys. See if you have something in common that you can talk about here or tell her to tell you about what she likes about any show.
If you have been travelling or if she likes to travel you could talk about different places that you have visited or would like to visit.
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