Here’s a Brief Overview
Personal Development, means different things to different people. Ultimately personal development is about focusing your attention on developing or refining your skills, abilities, attitude, and awareness for personal goal. As a category Personal development covers various areas of human activity and can be applied to business and financial growth. Socially Personal development can be applied to improving social relationship, with friend’s family or colleagues, partners, employees.
Personal Development in a Nut shell
If you wish to achieve worthwhile things in your personal and career life, you must become a worthwhile person in your own personal development.
To sum up personal development in a sentence, you can say personal development is about identifying challenges, finding solutions and integrating the answers or right course of action or behaviour into your daily life or business. Personal development is about making effective change in yourself or company procedures to better deal with the environment.
“Believe that you possess a basic goodness, which is the foundation for the greatness you can ultimately achieve.” Les Brown
Value oriented aspects
Many of the value oriented aspects of personal development boarders the realm’s of spirituality were the individuals attention maybe focused on developing better social and environmentally relationships, achieving personal self mastery’s over ones actions, as in behavioural changes or over coming limitations, at this level, persistence, inquisitiveness, study and self discipline are common themes. Professionally personal development may include such themes as personal mastery and communication, developing leadership skills etc.
In general personal development is about a cultivating a progressive attitude, studying/learning and applying appropriate success formulas or principles, whether as companies or individual. Much of the study of person development comes from the researching of people who have made significant growth, personally or in business.
Success leaves clues.
The early founders of the modern day form of personal development have studied and catalogued the process of success and achievement. They have made considerable progress in documenting the process of personal success as a science. Napoleon Hill is arguably the forefather of modern day personal development. He laid the foundations for our current generation of researchers, practitioner and coaches, such as the superstar Anthony Robbins
The following are some of the general themes in Personal Development
Developing or renewing identity
Fulfilling aspirations/Realizing dreams
Developing motivation – inspiration
Enhancing lifestyle or the quality of life
Improving your employability
Identifying and investing in ones potential
Developing strengths or talents
Personal and professional mastery – Learning techniques or methods to gain
Control of one’s life
Developing personal development plans
Increasing awareness or defining of one’s chosen lifestyle
Integrating social identity with self-identification
Increasing awareness or defining of one’s priorities
Increasing awareness or defining of one’s values
Increasing awareness or defining of one’s ethics
Strategies and realizing dreams, aspirations, career and lifestyle priorities
Developing personal discipline
Personal development goal/ material attainment
Developing professional potential
Developing individual competencies
Becoming more caring
How to learn from experience
Developing mature interpersonal relationships
Improving the quality of lifestyle (in such areas as health, wealth, culture,
family, friends and communities)
Learning techniques or methods to expand awareness
Achieving autonomy and interdependence
Learning techniques or methods to achieve wisdom
Personal development philosophically practice
Personal development may also be applied to the following disciplines, either in practice metaphorically or philosophically
The altruistic aspects of personal development
Some of the more altruistic elements of personal development have Parallels with some of the world’s spiritual tradition. A good example would be, The Eightfold Path of Buddhism which focus on the development of skills such as:
Check out the Parallels
Right View this can be a likened to, open mindedness, beliefs, continual learning of techniques or methods to expand awareness, thoughtfulness.
Right Intention this can be a likened to defining of one’s values or the effort to develop mutually beneficial relationships for the general and greater good.
Right Intentions form a personal development point of view this can be seen as increasing your awareness of your actions and adjusting them for the greater good.
Right Speech, from a personal development view this would be Communication skills. Communications skills may also include your internal dialogue as in positive speech.
Right Action, this can be seen as exercising consideration, personal integrity, exercising wisdom.
Right Livelihood, this would have a relation to lifestyle as I’m enhancing one’s quality of life, career, and working in an ethical line of employment etc.
Right Effort, this would relate to discipline commitment
Right Mindfulness, can be a likened to thoughtfulness consideration…
… And finally
Right Concentration, can be a likened to clarity, focus, exercising discipline of thoughts.
So where do you start? And what does it take?
Define an area of life you would like to work on…
1 create a vision
2 make a plan
3 action your plan
Commit to daily actions targeted towards change
Find a system or programme to facilitate your growth, in some cases this may mean reading the related material, books, websites blogs, in other cases this my mean joining the related clubs or taking courses etc. The main point is to develop a self image complementary to your goal/vision.
Their are no instant solutions, quick fixes or magic formulas to personal development – personal growth other then an awareness for the need for personal growth and the desire to grow. Granted that the two above conditions are meet – an awareness of the need for personal growth – and the desire to grow, you will be able to find success with the following tools:
These tools will make a nice starter in your chosen area of personal development/growth.
The Creative Power within us makes us into the image of that to which we give our attention.”
Wallace Delois Wattles
Here are two typical examples of a personal development exercise:
Renewing self images
First in order to realise success in you chosen area of personal development / growth. You need to do two things invest some time to identify and define an area you would like to develop ie you want a promotion
Developing an image of yourself in your finish or ideal state/position –
What you’re going to look like
How are you going to feel?
How will you be acting?
Develop you’re new self image daily
The following is an extract from Napoleon hill think and grow rich, Hill is describing the six steps needed to develop what he calls the burning desire needed to drive a person to the accomplishment of their goals. In this example the steps relate to money but with creative editing this formula can be applied to any area of goal attainment.
“First. Fix in your mind the exact amount of money you desire. It is not sufficient merely to say, “I want plenty of money.” Be definite as to the amount. (There is a psychological reason for definiteness, which will be described in a subsequent chapter). See book Think and grow rich napoleon Hill
Second. Determine exactly what you intend to give in return for the money you desire. (There is no such reality as “something for nothing.)
Third. Establish a definite date when you intend to possess the money you desire.
Fourth. Create a definite plan for carrying out your desire, and begin at once, whether you are ready or not to put this plan into action.
Fifth. Write out a clear, concise statement of the amount of money you intend to acquire, name the time limit for its acquisition, state what you intend to give in return for the money, and describe clearly the plan through which you intend to accumulate it.
Sixth. Read your written statement aloud, twice daily, once just before retiring at night, and once after arising in the morning.
Napoleon Hill’s 13 Success Principles are;
Desire, Faith, Auto-Suggestion, Specialized Knowledge, Imagination, Organised Planning, Decision, Persistence, the Master Mind, Transmutation, the Subconscious Mind, the Brain and the Sixth Sense
Think and grow rich by Napoleon Hill is a must have work -Think and grow rich is over flowing with valuable knowledge
All that man achieves and all that he fails to achieve is the direct result of his own thougths.”
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